English Idioms
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Meaning
The idiom "absence makes the heart grow fonder" means that someone may miss or long for someone more when they are away, even if they didn't appreciate them much while they were present. The phrase implies that time apart can bring about a deeper appreciation and affection for someone.
Usage
- After her friend moved to another country, she realized how much she missed their daily conversations and decided to visit her more often.
- When his boss announced an extended vacation, the employee felt anxious about being away from work and started to appreciate his colleagues more.
- The couple that had been arguing constantly for months finally took a break and went on a trip together. They returned feeling closer than ever.
- She regretted not spending enough time with her grandmother before she passed away and now cherished the memories they created together.
- After two years of being single, he decided to travel alone and met someone who made him realize how much he missed being in a relationship.
Roots and History
The idiom "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is an English proverb that dates back to at least the 14th century. It is based on the idea that when something is taken away, we often miss it more than we realized. The phrase has been used in literature, poetry, and everyday conversation for centuries.
Synonyms in English
- "Out of sight, out of mind"
- "Absence makes the heart grow lighter" (a variation with a different meaning)
- "The grass is always greener on the other side"
- "Absence makes the soul grow fonder"
- "Absence makes the heart yearn"
Synonyms in other languages
- French: "Absence rend le cœur plus lourd" (similar meaning)
- Spanish: "La ausencia hace el corazón crecer más caro" (similar meaning)
- German: "Die Abwesenheit macht das Herz wärmer" (similar meaning)
- Italian: "L'assenza rende il cuore più prezioso" (similar meaning)
- Portuguese: "A ausência faz o coração crescer mais caro" (similar meaning)